SLaP! (Social Learn & Play!) is a monthly
social gathering of learning, connection,
and play held on most third Fridays each
month.
NM-REAL SLaP! is a collaboration between NM-REAL and Purgatory Dungeon and SpectrumABQ intended as an easy-going, relaxed monthly kink social, learning, and sex-positive play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP! SLaP is not a NM L&K Fair event, but it can keep you entertained for an evening. It is produced by those brining you NM L&K Fair and Kinktoberfest.
Feb 20th, 2026 - SLaP!
This was our second SLaP! Event.
- Friday Feb 20th, 6 pm - 1 am
Educators:
•
Vid -
Lockdown: Introduction to Chastity
•
Twizted Magic & otherKitty, Bedroom Bondage
•
Mistress Glow - Fantasy - Mardis Gras themed.
Jan 16th, 2026 - SLaP!
This was our first SLaP! event.
Educators
•
Travis Wilson - Wax Play the Travis Way!
•
Mistress Glow - Over-the-knee spanking
Friday August 28th, 2026
Schedule:
5:30 pm: Doors open
6:00-8 pm: Flogging Class or Rope Class (you pick or switch!)
8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play Party
Tickets:
- 21+ years old
- $20 entry
- Ticket link: https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/slap-social-learn-and-play-28aug2026
Class 1: The basics of scene negotiations
While scene negotiations are specific to the people and activities, there are certain things that should
always be considered. This class will be an introduction to some of the universal basics to scene
negotiation.
Class 2: TBD
Check Back Soon.
Ticket links available soon. Also check out Spectrum & Purtatory websites.
May 22nd, 2026 - SLaP!
Dates/Times:
- We needed to move this to the 4th Friday to accommodate changes in the calendar!
Educators:
Rope Bondate 101 - Twizted Magic & otherKitty
Flogging 101 - Mistress Glow
SLaP! (Social Learn & Play!) is a
monthly social gathering of
learning, connection, and play
held on most third Fridays each
month.
NM-REAL SLaP! is a collaboration between NM-REAL and Purgatory Dungeon and SpectrumABQ intended as an easy-going, relaxed monthly kink social, learning, and sex-positive play event for those that crave excitement, education, and exploration in our community. Stop letting reality slap you in the face! It’s more fun to choose your own reality at SLaP! SLaP is not a NM L&K Fair event, but it can keep you entertained for an evening. It is produced by those brining you NM L&K Fair and Kinktoberfest.
Feb 20th, 2026 -
SLaP!
This was our second SLaP! Event.
- Friday Feb 20th, 6 pm - 1 am
Educators:
•
Vid -
Lockdown: Introduction to Chastity
•
Twizted Magic & otherKitty, Bedroom Bondage
•
Mistress Glow - Fantasy - Mardis
Gras themed.
Jan 16th, 2026 -
SLaP!
This was our first SLaP! event.
Educators
•
Travis Wilson - Wax Play the Travis Way!
•
Mistress Glow - Over-the-knee spanking
Friday August
28th, 2026
Schedule:
5:30 pm: Doors open
6:00-8 pm: Flogging Class or Rope Class (you pick or
switch!)
8 pm - 1 am: Sex-positive Kink/BDSM Play Party
Tickets:
- 21+ years old
- $20 entry
- Ticket link: https://www.zeffy.com/en-
US/ticketing/slap-social-learn-and-play-28aug2026
Class 1: The basics of
scene negotiations
While scene negotiations are specific to the people
and activities, there are certain things that should
always be considered. This class will be an
introduction to some of the universal basics to scene
negotiation.
Class 2: TBD
Check Back Soon.
Ticket links available soon. Also check out Spectrum
& Purtatory websites.
May 22nd, 2026 -
SLaP!
Dates/Times:
- We needed to move this to the 4th Friday to
accommodate changes in the calendar!
Educators:
Rope Bondate 101 - Twizted Magic & otherKitty
Flogging 101 - Mistress Glow